Bedroom Talk

I'm too nice,that's my problem!A weirdo has taken a shine to me at work-what do I do?

I'm a 32-yr-old male.I have of late been accosted by a man every day at work.He has bad B.O,his teeth are filthy,and he tends to get porn out of his bag and show me it.The mags are a bit near-the-knuckle,not illegal or anything,but it's as if the pics in the mags are set up to look like a girl being abused(i.e-the pics are in a kids bedroom setting,the men are far older than the females,etc.)But the girls in the mags definitely look over 18.What should I do about this man? Do you have a nutter in your workplace?What sort of things do they do?Tell me so I can laugh out loud.

Public Comments

1. Talk to your boss about him immediately.His behavior is unacceptable especially in the work place.
2. Ignore him!
3. Oh no! Next time he gets the mags out, say "Put them away, you wierdo!" Should get hte message and hopefully be offended enough to stay away without you having to say anything else!
4. Be honest, about how disgusting he is to you, (if this is really true), and offer some suggestions about how he can improve his opportunity for social acceptance if he will brush his teeth, use an anti-perspirant deodorant, keep his disgusting porn to himself, and to seek a good sex therapist. When you do that, ignore him.
5. this guy needs a friend, and clearly has problems, be understanding and just say I do not want to see the porn.
6. You should type out a note or something telling him he's disgusting and why and leave it on his desk before he gets to work. If he asks if you wrote it, deny it, ask to read it and laugh when you do. Then be like, "Ya youre teeth are kinda foul i guess!" There used to be this man at my work who had the worst breath ever. I couldn't even comprehend how ones mouth could smell like that without exploding with bacteria. He also had no comprehension of personal space so he'd get right up in your face and basically murder my nostrils with his malodorous discharge! The best I could do was offer him a mint or something every time he came over. I couldn't say, "oh excuse me, but do you have gengivitis? I was just wondering because i think I sensed it there..."
7. well you obviously don't fancy him, so let him know!
8. Firstly tell him in a non-confrontational way that your not comfortable with him showing you these magazines just tell him your too busy or that he'll get in trouble if someone see's and reports him. I tend too be nice to the office loser/weirdo because I don't like them being singled out they actually tend not to be as bad as people think and have NEVER been 'nutters' like in your case. Good Luck though Lol.